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Reunions bring Dashain joy: A full house, a stronger bond
For many, the highlight of Dashain is reuniting with loved ones, but others are also taking time to pursue personal interests.Mahesh KC
In Pokhara village of Sisne Rural Municipality-3 in Rukum, the home of Dhan Bahadur Khatri is bustling with excitement. After nine years abroad, his third son has returned with family members for Dashain, bringing immense happiness to the household. “Festivals come and go, but without the children, even the biggest celebrations feel empty,” says Dhan Bahadur, cradling his grandson. “This year, my son, daughter-in-law, and grandchildren are here. It feels like Dashain has truly arrived.”
This joy is echoed throughout the village. Mahendra KC’s home is also lively with the arrival of his two sons, daughters-in-law, and daughter with her husband. “Normally, it’s just my wife and me. Now, with everyone home, the house feels full again,” he shares with a smile. “The surroundings that were overgrown and neglected are now clean, and the once-empty rooms are alive with the laughter of grandchildren.”
With villagers who are usually busy with farming and daily chores now at home for the holiday, the whole community has become vibrant. The sound of children playing on traditional swings and the sight of family reunions are common. “Even though I’m studying in Kathmandu, I always come home for Dashain to enjoy the festivities with my family,” says Sulochana Gautam from Sisne-5, Rukumkot.
For many, the highlight of Dashain is reuniting with loved ones, but others are also taking time to pursue personal interests. “I’m passionate about photography and videography,” says Tek Raj Poudel from Pipal, Bafikot Rural Municipality-2, Rukum West. “Even during Dashain, I’ve been wandering around capturing moments on camera.”
Ananta Oli, from Khumcheri, Tribeni Rural Municipality-4, Rukum West, returned home after five years and was amazed by the progress in the village. “There were no roads here before, and now vehicles are driving through. Electricity has reached nearly every corner,” she says. “But I was saddened to see that some old landmarks and traditions are fading.”
Villagers who hadn’t returned home in years, or even decades, are back, filling the once-quiet homes with life. While some plan to leave right after Dashain, others are staying through Tihar. For now, the village feels alive, homes are full, and families are reunited, making this Dashain a truly special occasion.